If you’re a guy and your relationship is struggling and falling apart, what steps can you take to save it? Your friends may be there for you to talk to, but what do they really know about fixing your problem. They may have relationship issues themselves that they cannot fix. What you must be doing is seeking out information from a professional or at least an experienced person to get you going in the right direction.
Take a good look at yourself and determine if you are the cause of the problems you are having with your girlfriend or wife. If you find that you are the root cause and you wish to save your relationship, then you would really have to take responsibility for your actions and make an apology.
When you are trying to fix your relationship, there are two important phrases that must be said. The first is I’m Sorry and the next is I Was Wrong. The fact that you take responsibility and say these things to your girlfriend or wife is the first big step you can take. Keep in mind that you must say these phrases from the heart, really mean it or it will not come across as sincere.
Many men have an issue with apologizing. It does not matter if they are in the wrong; they just feel it is a sign of weakness to apologize. In reality it is far from a sign of weakness, it actually shows that you can accept and man up to a problem and make an attempt to fix a problem.
What if you know your partner is the problem? You would expect them to apologize, but what if you made an apology to her also for something you may or may not have done? Even if you did not do anything wrong you would be showing that you care enough to keep your relationship intact by taking some responsibility.
If you are someone that has trouble verbalizing their feelings directly to someone, try writing an apology letter. This may be a better way for some guys to say what they personally feel. If you are one that has trouble putting into words what they want to say while face to face, then you may find this easier to do. There was a time that writing letters was a great way to communicate. It worked back then and it can work now too.