Is it possible you are having trouble with your relationship? Could it be you feel like your girlfriend is going to leave you? If you want to make some improvements in your relationship and prevent a break up, you must follow a few basic rules.
First thing you must do is find out exactly what the problem is that is making your girlfriend unhappy. She may or may not tell you the truth, but get whatever info you can. Before you can make any move to fix your relationship you need to know what to work on.
Think about how you act around her, could the problem be you? If you take a good hard look at yourself and see something that may be a problem with her, is it something you can change? If you want to save the relationship you must do what you can to fix it.
Maybe the problem is her and not you. Could she be bored with this, not really wanting to make a commitment? Maybe she is not ready to settle down yet because she is going to school or maybe her career is her priority now. If this is the case, trying to pressure her into something will only push her further from you.
The two of you need to talk over how you feel for each other and if you can work things out. It would be better to work on this at the beginning when you see something wrong instead of waiting till it's too late. Many relationships have been saved just by opening up communication between both parties.
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I Must Get My Ex Back After She Dumped Me
When you have gone through a break up with your girlfriend, you are going to be very stressed out about it. You can bet your girlfriend is feeling the same as you do at the moment. If she is the one that left you, what do you do if you decide to try and get her back?
First and most importantly do not immediately start calling her begging for her to come back. All you will gain from this is an ex girlfriend that is even more upset than before. Your best bet would be to leave her alone for a few weeks at least while she and yourself get over the break up.
If you try to talk to her while still angry or upset over breaking up, the chance of saying the wrong things could potentially ruin your chances of ever getting her back. You do not need any more arguments at this time. The longer you hold off the better because as time goes by you tend to forget the bad memories.
While you are waiting you need to figure out exactly what went wrong and who is to blame for the break up. If you find it was you, be honest with yourself and decide if you can truly fix the problem. If you think you can make things better to please your ex enough to come back to you start working on it now.
If you are not willing to change for the better, do not waste your time trying to get her back because the two of you will most likely split up again. If you really want her back, and have made an honest effort to do better, then give her a quick call after a few weeks to ask if she is doing ok. From this call you may be able to judge her attitude to see how you may proceed.
Try for your Second Chance At Romance
First and most importantly do not immediately start calling her begging for her to come back. All you will gain from this is an ex girlfriend that is even more upset than before. Your best bet would be to leave her alone for a few weeks at least while she and yourself get over the break up.
If you try to talk to her while still angry or upset over breaking up, the chance of saying the wrong things could potentially ruin your chances of ever getting her back. You do not need any more arguments at this time. The longer you hold off the better because as time goes by you tend to forget the bad memories.
While you are waiting you need to figure out exactly what went wrong and who is to blame for the break up. If you find it was you, be honest with yourself and decide if you can truly fix the problem. If you think you can make things better to please your ex enough to come back to you start working on it now.
If you are not willing to change for the better, do not waste your time trying to get her back because the two of you will most likely split up again. If you really want her back, and have made an honest effort to do better, then give her a quick call after a few weeks to ask if she is doing ok. From this call you may be able to judge her attitude to see how you may proceed.
Try for your Second Chance At Romance
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