If you are recovering from a relationship because your boyfriend dumped you, are you feeling like you can't make it? Yes, you may have broken up but that does not mean you are finished. You may have the fear that you will never get over it and that you will never find anyone else again.
Your fear, anger and pain are real feelings but the actual situation is in your head. You can move out of these feeling and on to a normal life when you finally put it all behind you. Your life is not over, you still have lots of things you must do and you have family and friends that care about you.
If you were to talk to some of your family members or friends about how you feel about this break up, you may be surprised to find that some of them have experienced the same thing. They have gotten over it and moved on with their lives and are just fine.
This break up gives you a chance to reconnect with those you have not spent time with while with your ex. You can catch up on things with them and learn how you can get past this and continue on with your life.
Do the things that you enjoy the most; maybe you could not do them because your boyfriend was not interested. Get re-involved in activities that you enjoy and make new friends. Getting out and doing things will help you forget about your troubles and you can heal your pain much faster.
As you move on past your break up you will loose your sense of loss and who knows, you now have the chance to meet the guy that may truly be your soul mate. You can actually thank your ex for leaving you and giving you this new chance at life.