You want to get back together with your boyfriend after he left you? What happened to make him leave you like this? You thought everything was going great then now he is gone. You were even thinking marriage was just around the corner, could that be the reason he left? Maybe he was feeling like things were moving too fast for him and the only way he knew to stop it was to leave.
If you think that marriage was something that scared him off, maybe he was either scared of getting married now and it was just happening too quick or he has no plans to get married anytime soon. Some guys just want to wait till they are older before they get married, they want more time to have the freedom to do whatever they want with no strings attached.
Other guys may have an interest in their partner and are thinking of marriage themselves, but are feeling pressured or cornered into getting married now. They may have some other priorities they need to get straight first like their career or something similar. Now that the two of you have broke up and you want to get him back, give him some space for now.
Hopefully you are on speaking terms so you may call him in a couple weeks. Just have a quick conversation to say you just want to say hi. You don't want to pressure him, let him feel his is in control and is free to do his own thing. If you can keep in touch and he asks if you would meet with him, tell him you are busy now but will think about it for a later time. Put him in the position of chasing after you, let him be in control. Play hard to get on him so he will have to work at it and he will feel like getting you will be like winning a prize.
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